the people we attract in our lives are mirrors for what is also going on inside us, in some capacity - maybe there is a part of you that needs or needed what you want to provide them with. so give to yourself what you want to give to them. the best thing for you to do would be to focus on being emotionally loving and available to yourself, slowly start letting go and distancing yourself and detach. start putting yourself first and focusing on what you need and want. sometimes, letting a person go will show you whether they are truly meant to be in your life or not. it also allows the person to change on their own and if things are meant to be, you will certainly return to one another. give yourself this time. you never know what can happen when you let go. you bring others into your life who want to give you what you have to give.